So I think we’re going to be having another party (or two), and I wanted to invite you, my closest friends, first. We don’t have a definite date set yet, but I believe we’re aiming for Saturday June 16th. I’ll let you know when we get it nailed down. If the 16th isn’t good for you, please, please, please, respond to this or email me, so we can take your special case into consideration. We know we have several different types of friends, so I’ve already begun to plan the party with this in mind. Some people will get invitations that don’t mention the calmer early part of the party, and some people will get invitations that don’t mention the orgy.
I think we’ll start the party around five or so, but what I want to do is on the invitations (the ones that mention this part of the party at all) have specific starting times for the two movies I want to screen. Like, The Specials will start at 5:30 no matter what, and The Crow: Salvation will start at 7:30 no matter what. Then have the other invitations say the party starts at eight or nine, so people who think they’re showing up on time can join us for the rest of the movie, and people who show up fashionably late will show up with plenty of party present. Then plan on doing a little bit of a barbecue at like 10 or 10:30, and general partying. We’ll provide some of everything, but I think the invitations should make it clear that you should bring your own (booze, snacks, etc…).
I’ll invite my Rocky Horror Picture Show friends to come after the show, so we’ll have a whole group of people who don’t even show up until 2:30, 3, even 4AM, and keep the party going until the sun comes up and drives them all back into their crypts. Or at least into the pool. Which should certainly be clean by party time.
Oh, and the orgy. Although I certainly encourage an orgy to occur at this party (probably after the Rocky people show up), the orgy I’m referring to is the 2nd party I alluded to earlier. Invitation to the 2nd party (the orgy) will be conditional on two things. Whether the 2nd party occurs is conditional on my roommates (though I don’t think I care at this point what Woody has to say). The first condition is that you show up to the first party. This is a little loose, but it is basically to ensure that I meet you personally. If someone wants to be invited but can’t make it to the first party or hears about the 2nd party through a friend or something, they will definitely have to meet with me before they will be allowed to attend. The 2nd party will definitely be invite only, and every attendee will have to be cleared by me.
The 2nd condition of attendance will be specific written proof of not having any STI’s & Specifically not AIDS, from a test taken within 30 days of the 2nd party. I am going to be contacting the local Planned Parenthood shortly so that I will be able to provide every invitee specific information about where they can go to get tested, and what tests they need to take, if they don’t already know. I will have addresses, phone numbers, and specific information available at the 1st party, for anyone who wants it. I want everyone who attends the 2nd party, no matter what level of involvement they are comfortable with, to be comfortable with the health of the other attendees. Although I do not plan on inviting many people that I consider to be a health risk, I want to cover my bases. I have found that not enough people have had the opportunity to witness or take part in sexuality with multiple partners in an open, relaxed environment free from STI’s, and I want to have some more-experienced and some less-experienced people involved. I also will require written proof of a clean bill of health before they get through the door.
Now, I plan on the 2nd party taking place in mid-July. By this time, I hope to be totally moved out of this house. I do not know what the status of Iain or Woody will be at that point, but I expect them to still be residing here. I feel that this house provides the best possible space for a party, though, and do not believe that it will be a problem. What’s one night of debauchery? I realize that I have gone into more detail about this 2nd party than the first. This is because I believe that the first will pretty much take care of itself. The 2nd party takes more planning, and more thought. I could throw a party like the 1st together in one afternoon, if pressed. In order to get an adequate group for the 2nd, I have to have advance warning, and in order for it to be safe, I have to make sufficient plans. For both parties we have to have food and drink. For the 2nd we also have to have condoms and lubricants and probably some other … equipment.
If you have comments or questions, great. I’m just at the beginning of planning these two events. Still plenty of room for feedback. I do plan on working on the invitations for the 1st party tomorrow though. Probably to be able to start handing out tomorrow night. Wednesday at the latest.
It’s funny you say “tomorrow” when you mean Monday. It IS monday, silly. You’ll work on the invitations later today.
It’s funny you say “tomorrow” when you mean Monday. It IS monday, silly. You’ll work on the invitations later today.
People who take tests regularly (like me) don’t get papers. Often doctors don’t even write them up upon request. People also (particularly Rocky people) don’t go to that kind of trouble. But good luck, planned orgies are tough without drugs. There are other things necessary for comfort and ambiance that can get expensive, like lots of pillows and such. Despite what movies show, we all know that 20 people do not climb in a bed and get naked and do it. Anyway, as you may have known I’ve been in a couple, so if you need help planning, feel free to let me know.
Please do not throw said parties on this Sunday, June 10th, as that is my birthday. BTW, I’ve been lazy, this will be my official invite to Iain Ginger and Teel that they can come. Party starts at 7, food or cake of some sort at 8, over when you have to go to bed or have to go to work. My party is going to be small and laid back. Email me for directions and such as I do not feel inclined to post them publicly. Please try and RSVP of some sort, as I am considering catering Greek food and might need a head count.
All I have to say now. Sleep will come soon.
People who take tests regularly (like me) don’t get papers. Often doctors don’t even write them up upon request. People also (particularly Rocky people) don’t go to that kind of trouble. But good luck, planned orgies are tough without drugs. There are other things necessary for comfort and ambiance that can get expensive, like lots of pillows and such. Despite what movies show, we all know that 20 people do not climb in a bed and get naked and do it. Anyway, as you may have known I’ve been in a couple, so if you need help planning, feel free to let me know.
Please do not throw said parties on this Sunday, June 10th, as that is my birthday. BTW, I’ve been lazy, this will be my official invite to Iain Ginger and Teel that they can come. Party starts at 7, food or cake of some sort at 8, over when you have to go to bed or have to go to work. My party is going to be small and laid back. Email me for directions and such as I do not feel inclined to post them publicly. Please try and RSVP of some sort, as I am considering catering Greek food and might need a head count.
All I have to say now. Sleep will come soon.
I think that part of the point of this is to determine whether or not all the people who have asked me to throw something like this are actually interested or not. I believe that if people want a thing, it will happen. I believe that if I do not get a positive enough response by informed people, the event is easily enough cancelled before too long. People have assumed for years that this is the sort of thing I would be in charge of putting together, or would at least know about, and I’m hoping that all the people that took me aside and asked me about it are still interested. Actually, if they aren’t, it saves me some time and effort.
As far as getting papers goes, I’m going to see what I can do to work with local clinics and/or other groups to be sure that this can be handled easily. I am certain that there are people out there that are sympathetic to our cause. If I find that this is too difficult, I may have to adjust things, but we shall see what actually happens when it does (or doesn’t).
I think that part of the point of this is to determine whether or not all the people who have asked me to throw something like this are actually interested or not. I believe that if people want a thing, it will happen. I believe that if I do not get a positive enough response by informed people, the event is easily enough cancelled before too long. People have assumed for years that this is the sort of thing I would be in charge of putting together, or would at least know about, and I’m hoping that all the people that took me aside and asked me about it are still interested. Actually, if they aren’t, it saves me some time and effort.
As far as getting papers goes, I’m going to see what I can do to work with local clinics and/or other groups to be sure that this can be handled easily. I am certain that there are people out there that are sympathetic to our cause. If I find that this is too difficult, I may have to adjust things, but we shall see what actually happens when it does (or doesn’t).
Actually, the 23rd would be better for me. Sorry i didn’t mention this sooner Teel, but the 16th is Ginger’s mom’s birthday, so is a poor time to have it. Plus it will give us more time to uh… straighten up here and there for it.
– Iain
Actually, the 23rd would be better for me. Sorry i didn’t mention this sooner Teel, but the 16th is Ginger’s mom’s birthday, so is a poor time to have it. Plus it will give us more time to uh… straighten up here and there for it.
– Iain
Oh, and as far as Marie’s party goes, unfortunately I have a church function to attend and Ginger is going to be housesitting that night. =( Happy birthday nonetheless!
– Iain
Oh, and as far as Marie’s party goes, unfortunately I have a church function to attend and Ginger is going to be housesitting that night. =( Happy birthday nonetheless!
– Iain
Heck, worst case scenario for the orgy, we move it to some swinger’s club and forego all testing. Then at least there will be something interesting to watch, and I won’t have to worry too much about planning the thing.
As far as the date of the first party, the 23rd will actually probably be better. I have at least one friend who would have been out of town if we’d had it on the 16th that I know would like to attend.
Marie: I don’t think I have any plans for the 10th. Is it going to be just you and me hanging out, then? That would be okay. Give me a call and we’ll talk about it.
Heck, worst case scenario for the orgy, we move it to some swinger’s club and forego all testing. Then at least there will be something interesting to watch, and I won’t have to worry too much about planning the thing.
As far as the date of the first party, the 23rd will actually probably be better. I have at least one friend who would have been out of town if we’d had it on the 16th that I know would like to attend.
Marie: I don’t think I have any plans for the 10th. Is it going to be just you and me hanging out, then? That would be okay. Give me a call and we’ll talk about it.
And upon further examination, I should own a copy of O’ Brother Where Art Thou on DVD before the party, so if we want to watch that instead of or in addition to the other movies, that might be fun. I really enjoyed O’ Borther Where Art Thou, and I think it might be a fun movie to watch with friends. Any interest?
I wanted to do The Crow: Salvation, because I feel like other people won’t bother to watch it on their own, but would definitely enjoy it if given the opportunity.
And upon further examination, I should own a copy of O’ Brother Where Art Thou on DVD before the party, so if we want to watch that instead of or in addition to the other movies, that might be fun. I really enjoyed O’ Borther Where Art Thou, and I think it might be a fun movie to watch with friends. Any interest?
I wanted to do The Crow: Salvation, because I feel like other people won’t bother to watch it on their own, but would definitely enjoy it if given the opportunity.
Invitations are now available. If you have read this far, you already know the details, but I would be glad to give you a physical invitation. Give me a call or stop by.
Invitations are now available. If you have read this far, you already know the details, but I would be glad to give you a physical invitation. Give me a call or stop by.
Discretions would be a good place to have it. Men have to pay $20 for a membership if they have a girl with them, $25 if they don’t. Women pay $5 for the membership then nothing else. Men pay $5 each visit later. All parties have to have ID that says they are over 18. I enjoyed the ambiance when I used to hang there.
I am actually inviting a couple of other people to my house, and I think a couple of people from work are actually going to show up. I am willing to pick you up, as I have to also pick Heather up (probably). But I will call you, probably tommorow as I Would hate to wake you if you are actually sleeping.
Discretions would be a good place to have it. Men have to pay $20 for a membership if they have a girl with them, $25 if they don’t. Women pay $5 for the membership then nothing else. Men pay $5 each visit later. All parties have to have ID that says they are over 18. I enjoyed the ambiance when I used to hang there.
I am actually inviting a couple of other people to my house, and I think a couple of people from work are actually going to show up. I am willing to pick you up, as I have to also pick Heather up (probably). But I will call you, probably tommorow as I Would hate to wake you if you are actually sleeping.