So I think we’re going to be having another party (or two), and I wanted to invite you, my closest friends, first. We don’t have a definite date set yet, but I believe we’re aiming for Saturday June 16th. I’ll let you know when we get it nailed down. If the 16th isn’t good for you, please, please, please, respond to this or email me, so we can take your special case into consideration. We know we have several different types of friends, so I’ve already begun to plan the party with this in mind. Some people will get invitations that don’t mention the calmer early part of the party, and some people will get invitations that don’t mention the orgy.
I think we’ll start the party around five or so, but what I want to do is on the invitations (the ones that mention this part of the party at all) have specific starting times for the two movies I want to screen. Like, The Specials will start at 5:30 no matter what, and The Crow: Salvation will start at 7:30 no matter what. Then have the other invitations say the party starts at eight or nine, so people who think they’re showing up on time can join us for the rest of the movie, and people who show up fashionably late will show up with plenty of party present. Then plan on doing a little bit of a barbecue at like 10 or 10:30, and general partying. We’ll provide some of everything, but I think the invitations should make it clear that you should bring your own (booze, snacks, etc…).
I’ll invite my Rocky Horror Picture Show friends to come after the show, so we’ll have a whole group of people who don’t even show up until 2:30, 3, even 4AM, and keep the party going until the sun comes up and drives them all back into their crypts. Or at least into the pool. Which should certainly be clean by party time.
Oh, and the orgy. Although I certainly encourage an orgy to occur at this party (probably after the Rocky people show up), the orgy I’m referring to is the 2nd party I alluded to earlier. Invitation to the 2nd party (the orgy) will be conditional on two things. Whether the 2nd party occurs is conditional on my roommates (though I don’t think I care at this point what Woody has to say). The first condition is that you show up to the first party. This is a little loose, but it is basically to ensure that I meet you personally. If someone wants to be invited but can’t make it to the first party or hears about the 2nd party through a friend or something, they will definitely have to meet with me before they will be allowed to attend. The 2nd party will definitely be invite only, and every attendee will have to be cleared by me.
The 2nd condition of attendance will be specific written proof of not having any STI’s & Specifically not AIDS, from a test taken within 30 days of the 2nd party. I am going to be contacting the local Planned Parenthood shortly so that I will be able to provide every invitee specific information about where they can go to get tested, and what tests they need to take, if they don’t already know. I will have addresses, phone numbers, and specific information available at the 1st party, for anyone who wants it. I want everyone who attends the 2nd party, no matter what level of involvement they are comfortable with, to be comfortable with the health of the other attendees. Although I do not plan on inviting many people that I consider to be a health risk, I want to cover my bases. I have found that not enough people have had the opportunity to witness or take part in sexuality with multiple partners in an open, relaxed environment free from STI’s, and I want to have some more-experienced and some less-experienced people involved. I also will require written proof of a clean bill of health before they get through the door.
Now, I plan on the 2nd party taking place in mid-July. By this time, I hope to be totally moved out of this house. I do not know what the status of Iain or Woody will be at that point, but I expect them to still be residing here. I feel that this house provides the best possible space for a party, though, and do not believe that it will be a problem. What’s one night of debauchery? I realize that I have gone into more detail about this 2nd party than the first. This is because I believe that the first will pretty much take care of itself. The 2nd party takes more planning, and more thought. I could throw a party like the 1st together in one afternoon, if pressed. In order to get an adequate group for the 2nd, I have to have advance warning, and in order for it to be safe, I have to make sufficient plans. For both parties we have to have food and drink. For the 2nd we also have to have condoms and lubricants and probably some other … equipment.
If you have comments or questions, great. I’m just at the beginning of planning these two events. Still plenty of room for feedback. I do plan on working on the invitations for the 1st party tomorrow though. Probably to be able to start handing out tomorrow night. Wednesday at the latest.